Space, the final frontier. At least in Star Trek it was. Now you may be wondering how do I get my ex back when he wants more space? That is if you just broke up for that reason. This type of frontier is littered with complicated reasons. Understanding those reason may help you navigate this frontier and get your ex back. Here are a few examples of this emotional frontier, family crisis or interference. Personal insecurities. Some even have a fear of commitment. There is always the possibility that you are to possessive as well.
During these times it is easy to get emotional and over react. This usually has the opposite result, and will drive most guys away for good. So keep your head and give him some space. I do not suggest playing hard to get, because this may just make him justify leaving you for good. Remember you are trying to get him back, stay focused.
Stay close but not real close, a voice mail now and then, maybe a text, You need to respect his need for space, yet find a solution for a way for you to get back together and both be happy. Absence can make the heart grow fonder…
Once He realizes you respect his need for space it is time to slowly reconnect. You can do this by remembering what brought you two together in the first place. Share laughs over the good times you spent together. Get in touch again like the best friends you were before.
If by now you are not getting anywhere, maybe it is time to move on. Only you can judge that. If it is make sure to be friendly and respectful. Every now and then it takes a message of finality to wake up a guy to see what he is truly losing. So it may take the strength of moving on to get your boyfriend back. Keep your focus, and look for tiny signals in his smile, his touch, his words, and maybe his laughter. This will tell you whether to continue or to move on.
This is a good start and should make you able to confidently ask and answer – How do I get my ex back if he wants more space?
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
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Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Thursday, March 5, 2009
5 Easy Steps On How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back!
5 Easy Steps On How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back! Wow 5 easy steps, well depending on how bad you messed up. You may need to work harder than others if you really made a mess of your relationship with your girlfriend. For many though you have a good chance of succeeding if you follow my 5 easy steps.
1. Most relationships are based on friendship with the benefit of also being in love. So to have a chance a getting your ex back you need to keep the friendship alive. So stay friends. Keep in contact as a friend. Do not overdo it. But make sure she knows you still are her friend.
2. Sometimes an email is a good way to stay connected and respect her space and feelings. Remember in the beginning be friendly, not focused on getting her back yet.
3. You may be tempted to go out with other women at this time. Not a good idea. Even if she is going out with other guys. Getting distracted and losing your focus at this critical time will not get her back. You may get her even angrier at you, and lose her for good. Going out with other women sends her the signal she is not that important to you. Stay single, stay friendly!
4. Women love thoughtful men. So as time goes on there are bound to be days of celebration. Could be a birthday, a holiday, or maybe some sentimental milestone of your past relationship. You have to step up and use this moment to your advantage. She loved you once. So use that and remind her of it in subtle way by acknowledging the holiday or special day in a very personal and thoughtful way. Get her in touch with the love you had together.
5. To recap, this is all about being her friend and keeping her connected to the friendship you still have. From that friendship love can be rebuilt. An important thing to remember is to also respect her feelings and maybe even apologize. You know her best, and sometimes an apology spirals into an argument or just rehashes the pain and keeps the focus on why it went wrong. Other times a thoughtful apology is an intro into staying friends so you can show her that getting back with you is the best choice she can make.
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
1. Most relationships are based on friendship with the benefit of also being in love. So to have a chance a getting your ex back you need to keep the friendship alive. So stay friends. Keep in contact as a friend. Do not overdo it. But make sure she knows you still are her friend.
2. Sometimes an email is a good way to stay connected and respect her space and feelings. Remember in the beginning be friendly, not focused on getting her back yet.
3. You may be tempted to go out with other women at this time. Not a good idea. Even if she is going out with other guys. Getting distracted and losing your focus at this critical time will not get her back. You may get her even angrier at you, and lose her for good. Going out with other women sends her the signal she is not that important to you. Stay single, stay friendly!
4. Women love thoughtful men. So as time goes on there are bound to be days of celebration. Could be a birthday, a holiday, or maybe some sentimental milestone of your past relationship. You have to step up and use this moment to your advantage. She loved you once. So use that and remind her of it in subtle way by acknowledging the holiday or special day in a very personal and thoughtful way. Get her in touch with the love you had together.
5. To recap, this is all about being her friend and keeping her connected to the friendship you still have. From that friendship love can be rebuilt. An important thing to remember is to also respect her feelings and maybe even apologize. You know her best, and sometimes an apology spirals into an argument or just rehashes the pain and keeps the focus on why it went wrong. Other times a thoughtful apology is an intro into staying friends so you can show her that getting back with you is the best choice she can make.
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Sunday, March 1, 2009
Can I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back?
I am sorry… Words to remember if you were just dumped by your girlfriend! You may be one of those optimistic types that are asking yourself over and over, can I get my ex girlfriend back? It is possible…It takes thoughtful work though, as well as saying I am sorry… The reason I say that is if you are considering getting your ex girlfriend back, chances are she dumped you and she did it because you screwed up. So a good place to start is…. I am sorry!
After I am sorry what can you do to get your ex girlfriend back? Many beg… not a good idea. Many call and leave terrible whiney messages, again not a good idea. Some try flowers… hmmm better, but not always a winner. Some get creative, write poetry, sing songs… even hire sky writers to apologize in the sky. There are tons of creative ways to ask your ex girlfriend to take you back. However a thoughtful way is to lay the groundwork first. This takes serious consideration as to why she dumped you, and how you can stop doing what drove her away.
Explaining this takes timing. So be nice, do not overwhelm her with pitiful whining. Then express your sincere apology, with a plan for the future that deals with why she left you in the first place.
Most women leave because they feel emotionally forgotten. Well lets be real… If you cheated on your ex girlfriend… I do not think this article will help you. So beyond cheaters the reason for most break ups are emotional. Women need a connection beyond the obvious. Most men work really hard to get the girl, then get distracted and lose the emotional connection with their girlfriend.
So it is that easy to get your ex girlfriend back… Hehehehehe no its not… Just like a relationship… it takes thoughtful work not only to get her back, but to keep her. So understand that and you may get her back and keep her as well…. Good Luck!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
After I am sorry what can you do to get your ex girlfriend back? Many beg… not a good idea. Many call and leave terrible whiney messages, again not a good idea. Some try flowers… hmmm better, but not always a winner. Some get creative, write poetry, sing songs… even hire sky writers to apologize in the sky. There are tons of creative ways to ask your ex girlfriend to take you back. However a thoughtful way is to lay the groundwork first. This takes serious consideration as to why she dumped you, and how you can stop doing what drove her away.
Explaining this takes timing. So be nice, do not overwhelm her with pitiful whining. Then express your sincere apology, with a plan for the future that deals with why she left you in the first place.
Most women leave because they feel emotionally forgotten. Well lets be real… If you cheated on your ex girlfriend… I do not think this article will help you. So beyond cheaters the reason for most break ups are emotional. Women need a connection beyond the obvious. Most men work really hard to get the girl, then get distracted and lose the emotional connection with their girlfriend.
So it is that easy to get your ex girlfriend back… Hehehehehe no its not… Just like a relationship… it takes thoughtful work not only to get her back, but to keep her. So understand that and you may get her back and keep her as well…. Good Luck!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Friday, February 27, 2009
I am Heartbroken. Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back?
So you got dumped, that’s gotta hurt! He left, and now you are sitting around wondering, how can I get my ex boyfriend back? Good question… lets look at a few simple things you can do, as well as a few things not to do.
Start by being nice. I many cases guys break up because of unpleasant situations in the relationship. So if you continue to be unpleasant you will just drive him away even further. So be nice, be pleasant. It is not that hard to do… well it should not be that hard to do, if it is… well at least we know why you broke….
Things not to do. Do not beg. That will not work. Don’t play games, like dating someone to get him jealous. That’s wrong in many ways to your ex, to you and to your date. Do not call and text and bother him all the time… Better to give him some space, Be nice, be pleasant, get in touch with the person your ex fell in love with. Many times that person gets lost in the stress of day to day living. That may be all your break up is about. That is a very important part of getting your ex boyfriend back.
Another thing is to really get a grasp of what went wrong and the part you played in causing the break up. Then if you can live with the “FIX” to the cause of your breakup and you’ve been able to establish comfortable communications by being nice, then present your “fix”. Good Luck!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Start by being nice. I many cases guys break up because of unpleasant situations in the relationship. So if you continue to be unpleasant you will just drive him away even further. So be nice, be pleasant. It is not that hard to do… well it should not be that hard to do, if it is… well at least we know why you broke….
Things not to do. Do not beg. That will not work. Don’t play games, like dating someone to get him jealous. That’s wrong in many ways to your ex, to you and to your date. Do not call and text and bother him all the time… Better to give him some space, Be nice, be pleasant, get in touch with the person your ex fell in love with. Many times that person gets lost in the stress of day to day living. That may be all your break up is about. That is a very important part of getting your ex boyfriend back.
Another thing is to really get a grasp of what went wrong and the part you played in causing the break up. Then if you can live with the “FIX” to the cause of your breakup and you’ve been able to establish comfortable communications by being nice, then present your “fix”. Good Luck!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Thursday, February 26, 2009
What Should I Do to Get My Ex Back Now?
Beg for forgiveness, hardly ever works, but you thought that was it, I bet. Better Idea, figure out what went wrong. Really, this is the right thing to do. You got dumped… WHY, find the answer and maybe you can get your ex back!
Or you could get even, get mad, yell and scream, call them names, make them cry? Yeah right, that will get em back…. NO it won’t! You know that, but it is a first response to getting dumped by most.
Ok what is left? Move on… Really I thought you wanted to get your ex back. Now here is where we find those committed to getting back together. If you are still here maybe you are serious.
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Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
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Ok you are serious, we know getting even, yelling and screaming is not the answer… Brutally honest accountability is… What the hell does that mean? It means you have to look at the “WHY” you were dumped… In a brutally honest way! This is tough, you may find you really screwed up. You may find your other half is really screwed up. Either way how can you fix this?
You need to face the truth and decide, fix it, or move on! Can you live with the fix? This is the biggest question of them all. Brutal honesty will save your days, weeks, months, and maybe years of pain and suffering!
Time to choose… so ask yourself… What should I do to get my ex back, and do I really want them back?
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Or you could get even, get mad, yell and scream, call them names, make them cry? Yeah right, that will get em back…. NO it won’t! You know that, but it is a first response to getting dumped by most.
Ok what is left? Move on… Really I thought you wanted to get your ex back. Now here is where we find those committed to getting back together. If you are still here maybe you are serious.
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Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
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Ok you are serious, we know getting even, yelling and screaming is not the answer… Brutally honest accountability is… What the hell does that mean? It means you have to look at the “WHY” you were dumped… In a brutally honest way! This is tough, you may find you really screwed up. You may find your other half is really screwed up. Either way how can you fix this?
You need to face the truth and decide, fix it, or move on! Can you live with the fix? This is the biggest question of them all. Brutal honesty will save your days, weeks, months, and maybe years of pain and suffering!
Time to choose… so ask yourself… What should I do to get my ex back, and do I really want them back?
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
How can I Get my Ex Back with a Confident Attitude Now!
I like the title of this article. It pretty much explains it all in a sentence. How can I get my ex back with a confident attitude? As they say… asked and answered. Yet many of you if you are experiencing the trauma of a break up may not be thinking clearly, and could use a better explanation. I will attempt to explain the obvious with some tenderness and sympathy for your painful and possibly even embarrassing situation.
So I repeat the obvious… CONFIDENCE…. But you are heart broken, where do you find confidence? The only thing you are confident about is your heart is broken. OK I know, however if you are reading this I would expect you want to get your ex back. Well honestly going around weeping and being depressed is not the answer. Confidence is the answer, or better yet a confident attitude is the answer to getting your ex back.
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Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
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So we understand the importance of a confident attitude… great. Now lets put it out there for the world (including your ex) to see. Go out with friends and do fun things. Stay clear of doom and gloomer’s and anyone who wants to see you fail. Hang with supportive people who make being confident easier. This will influence your ex in a positive way. Remember here our goal is to get your ex back. So stay focused.
Many times it is easy to get caught up in the fun of the moment and miss some details… Details being personal grooming and all around neatness. The last thing you want is to publically look fantastic, your ex decides to stop by and possibly make up, and your place is a disaster. She catches you unkempt with filthy place, and dirty dishes all over… you know what I mean. So whether you are in public, or private, keep your act together. Be clean neat and organized in your appearance and your living conditions. You never know what’s around the next curve in life. Remember the goal is to get your ex back!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
So I repeat the obvious… CONFIDENCE…. But you are heart broken, where do you find confidence? The only thing you are confident about is your heart is broken. OK I know, however if you are reading this I would expect you want to get your ex back. Well honestly going around weeping and being depressed is not the answer. Confidence is the answer, or better yet a confident attitude is the answer to getting your ex back.
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Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
>>>>>>>>>>>
So we understand the importance of a confident attitude… great. Now lets put it out there for the world (including your ex) to see. Go out with friends and do fun things. Stay clear of doom and gloomer’s and anyone who wants to see you fail. Hang with supportive people who make being confident easier. This will influence your ex in a positive way. Remember here our goal is to get your ex back. So stay focused.
Many times it is easy to get caught up in the fun of the moment and miss some details… Details being personal grooming and all around neatness. The last thing you want is to publically look fantastic, your ex decides to stop by and possibly make up, and your place is a disaster. She catches you unkempt with filthy place, and dirty dishes all over… you know what I mean. So whether you are in public, or private, keep your act together. Be clean neat and organized in your appearance and your living conditions. You never know what’s around the next curve in life. Remember the goal is to get your ex back!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
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