How do I Get Back Together with My Ex in 3 Steps

You just had a “BREAK UP” now you want to “MAKE UP”. So what do you do? You need to turn that painful break up, into a passionate make up. Start by asking the obvious question… How do I get back together with my ex? Answer…. Read the following 3 steps….

Before we get to the 3 steps to get back together with your ex… Let’s define 2 things not to do… First DO NOT reveal to your ex that you are sad and depressed … Might as well paint a big L for loser on your forehead… Second… Stay off the phone, email, and text until you have something of value to say. Crying and whining is to be done in private, not on the phone, not in public, or in an email or text. That is if you truly want to get your ex back.

Step1). You just broke up… accept it! Denial is not a river in Egypt. It is a state of mind, a state of mind that will not get your ex back. You both need time to adjust… Sometimes break ups are a flash reaction to a small thing and just by backing off your ex may realize they really do not want this to happen and all is forgiven… It also gives you time to make sure you really want to get back together. Also find ownership of why you broke up. Not owning, then repairing why you broke will only lead to another maybe even final break up.

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Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here

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Step2). Reread the things not to do! I know, it is all there, at least the first 2 steps are…. Sometimes getting back together is more about what you do not do than what you do. There is a part B to this though and just as important. I am assuming since the focus of yours is getting back together with your ex that you did not initiate the break up. So I also assume in your ex’s opinion, you screwed up. OK then, sorry to hear that. BUT! That means you have to fix it! It’s broke... You’re single… OUCH! This is the hardest part of this whole process. Own what your ex has put on you as the reason why they dumped you. Most want to defend, explain, and make excuses. Those are the ones that never get their ex back. So choose… blah, blah, excuses and bs, or Sorry I screwed up! Here is how I can make it better… And be serious and have some honest solutions to the problem… and for some of you asking for forgiveness may be needed (you know who you are).

Step3). This is based on doing all the work right in step 1 and 2. If you did you are prepared to meet your ex and talk about your break up. There has been enough time, you have been thoughtful and have a plan and maybe an apology. Now a thought to give you confidence… They loved you before… They can love you again… Be confident, apologetic, concerned, thoughtful, and most of all be the person they fell in love in the first place!

See how easy that sounds… Well if you can keep your emotions under control it is doable. So go for it! I mean really they already dumped you. What do you have to lose?

Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here